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Finding out why we came this way; Florida calls!

It comes as a bit of a surprise when we tell our friends about the temperatures we encounter primarily living, as we now do, along the Florida panhandle. Having decided on taking up residence in an over-55 managed facility, Latitude Margaritaville Water Sound (LMWS), paralleling the magical Emerald Coast, we are often held to ransom by cold fronts descending from wintery Canada. 

To be honest, we didn’t do our research, thinking all of Florida enjoyed the same weather conditions as we have enjoyed in the past whenever we visited the Florida Keys. However, leaving our former home on Sanctuary Drive in Windsor, Colorado, we were apprehensive about how easily we would adapt to the potential of less warmer days. Just as we were initially confused over Florida spanning two time zones – yes, we live within Central Standard Time and not the Eastern Standard Time – the state is split into two geographical zones what else might we would find that would be different: 

“Florida has two main climate zones, with the
(tropical) southernmost areas having warmer,
tropical-like conditions, and the rest of the
(sub-tropical, northern area of the) state
having milder winters with more frequent freezes.”

The good news is that this period of colder weather didn’t last long and warmer conditions have returned. This past weekend it was back to daytime temperatures pushing upwards into the mid-70s F. Nice! However, this post isn’t about how cold Florida can become, but rather, how we have become more attuned to outside activities. And of how our "adjusting to Florida" is coming along. 

We continue with our lanai “decoration” and this has been perhaps our most enjoyable pursuit since taking up occupancy in our new home, a very short six months ago. Our decision to pave beyond the Lanai, build a combination pool and spa (heated, of course), and erect the pool’s screened enclosure – affectionally referred to as “the birdcage” – has helped with our transition to living in the great outdoors. 

Adding pool lighting as the pool and spa were created was part of a much bigger plan that would assure us of year-round enjoyment of these great outdoors. And look carefully at the photos as you may spot the arrival of our Pool Ledge chairs – made it in time for the holidays.  

We brought patio furniture with us from Windsor Colorado and this gave us a head start but decorating didn’t stop with just a few chairs, a bar and a grill. We aren't done yet, according to the goals we agreed upon. As we progressed with the plan, there were plenty of opportunities to simply sit back, enjoy the view and to sip on a cocktail. No need to rush, right?


Like many grandparents before us, providing an enriching environment attractive to our grandkids was a priority right from the outset. Even though we elected to build a two-bedroom house, it did include a multifunction den that we enclosed with French Doors. Decorating it as our office was only part of the story as we included a faux bar that in reality was a Murphy Bed. Again, this is only half the story.

We knew from past experiences that spending any time in a temporary bedroom was never going to be used for anything more than sleeping so, recently, we added a lighting system to the birdcage and this has dramatically changed the ambiance even as it makes “playing outdoors” more of an option as evenings here start early. Being on the leading edge of the central time zone, the sun sets before 5:00pm so making the environment enjoyable has benefited from being attractively lit:  

Playing around with the color combinations – do you think the above sets the stage for holidays to come? Turning the pool lights a shade of brown with the surround lights yellow in acknowledgement of Thanksgiving was never going to work for us, but giving it more of a Christmas feel certainly seemed, to us, to be a better lighting option. But one thing remained. As enticing as the scene might be, as the clock continues to count down the evening hours, it becomes pretty chilly under the birdcage.

This week we installed an outdoor infrared heater. A rather big one. Still early days before we can pass judgement on the prudence of such an installation but, for now, it’s doing the job of ensuring the Lanai is warm no matter how cold it gets. This is an important life-choice factor as, with age, everything feels a little colder. Unfortunately, that’s not all that comes with maturing as grandparents.

That need for a nap after lunch and that fondness for an early night’s retreat to a comfortable bed all become practices we look forward to – how did that happen? To paraphrase the popular Jimmy Buffett refrains, when did we suddenly become the grandparents we were warned about?  We both know that, while we might be growing old, we certainly are not growing up. We retain the sense of adventure we have always had and planning the next one is always an enjoyable exercise. But again, as the visits by our grandchildren remind us, there’s a reason why “grand” precedes kids. We have finally entered a demographic we so fiercely resisted for the duration of our time together as husband and wife.   

Returning to the topic of Florida seasons, amazing: There is a fall season in Florida? Yes, the colors of autumn are hard to miss even as we continue to drive the Florida highways. In LMWS, where the flora features numerous imported shrubs – we even have Australian bottlebrush bushes flowering red – we enjoy a color palate that blends reds, golds and browns with the evergreen native pines. Just one more reminder that as seasons come and go, our maturing continues unabated.

For the past three months, we have been commuting between the panhandle and the southern reaches of Florida. Our now-routine 550-mile drive to and from Boca Raton – yes, an 1,100-mile return journey – has become something we look forward to. Not just because of the warmer weather, but for the food, the shopping and time spent with friends and business colleagues.

Margo and I have always seen life as a journey and yes, our lives are a highway, not to put too fine a point on the fact that for almost three decades, it’s been a constant, almost perpetual movement, between where we are and where we need to be and we don’t see any changes happening in the near future. The road may go on forever but no, the parties are winding down. Ouch! 

As a development, LMWS not only parallels the beaches of the Emerald Coast, but is located alongside the navigable Gulf intracoastal waterway. Not quite the same as it’s more famous Atlantic Ocean intracoastal waterway, it’s a means to sail between cities without needing to head out into the gulf. Well, not entirely as it’s not contiguous all the way west to Corpus Christi, but there’s enough of these oftentimes muddy waters to provide many options as to final destinations. When the skies are blue so is the waterway. Cloudy? Then the more familiar muddy body of water has become a familiar sight.

Driving the Florida highways has become our primary navigable option as we divide time between heading east with heading north and west. As we continue to drive between our Florida residence and our Colorado condo, the miles are adding up even as our highway "situational awareness" has sharpened. Yes, on America’s Interstates, everyone is out to kill you and unfortunately, that’s the new reality and there are plenty of signs to support the lack of highway knowledge, indeed courtesy, among drivers. 

Frustrations develop quickly and sudden rash moves fuels that need to remain aware at all times. Speed limits? Fuhgeddaboudit! So, the speed limit is 70 mph – surely, 84 is fine, right? Passing a series of trucks on the curbside lane at 90 mph? Sure – need to pass those big rigs before they begin using all the lanes to pass each other. Highway Patrol cars are seldom seen and modern navigation systems are letting us know exactly where they are but even so, passing them at 78 mph or even 81 mph (in that same 70 mph zone) has not bothered any patrol offices to date.

At a fast-food diner, off an interstate, we once asked a patrol officer what really was the speed limit on a 70mph stretch of highway? With a slight shrug, they told us to stick to the speed limit but then, when we said we are at risk as every driver is passing us at speed. Well, came the response, “try not to do more than 10 mph over the signed speed limits!” Love this country – no rules, just informal guidelines!

Well, way down yonder on the Chattahoochee
It gets hotter than a hoochie coochie

Yeah, way down yonder on the Chattahoochee
Never knew how much that muddy water meant to me …

Alan Jackson

Driving across Florida, almost every county line, every river crossing, and almost every highway - think the "Pascagoula Highway" – brings a song to mind. It’s hard not to think in terms of the lyrics of songs we often hear while walking around LMWS. It’s a truism that electing to live in Margaritaville is a sure sign that music plays a part of your lifestyle. Margo met Jimmy one lunchtime in Key West, back in the ‘90s, and perhaps that was the catalyst for our fondness for the Florida Keys and the laid-back beach-focused, lifestyle that it represents.

Then again, the more we tune-into the lifestyle this affords us, the more my memory goes back to my youth, living in Sydney and spending as many days as I could on Sydney’s northern beaches. Same temperature, same climate and same, very simplistic lifestyle. So much so that with every trip back to Sydney, nostalgia quickly takes root. But then again, growing old but not up has a certain cachet about it. If only we could see the Southern Cross! "Cause when we part ways with the Southern Cross, slipping as it always does beneath the southern sky, we understand now why we came this way!” A line that continues to resonate with me no matter in which direction we pass by these stars. 

Kicking back, even now, watching the latest sunset, with the backyard lights coming on, maybe, just maybe, a Sydney recreation is truly, all that we needed. Coming up soon, maybe? Then again, we have to admit, it’s not that shabby living by the water after all, even as lengthening shadows let us know that the sun is making a final appearance before leaving us for the night, we miss the bright lights of Sydney less and less with the passage of time. We may have relocated from Sanctuary Drive, Colorado, to Florida but it is safe to say; we have built our very own sanctuary and nothing we know of can detract us from life's latest chapter! 




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